3 Reasons Why You Push People Away

3 Reasons Why You Push People Away

Written by Chris Josh


Do you or someone you know push people away? Maybe you crave friends or connection, but when someone shows interest, you withdraw. This might be a trauma response.


In my book, ‘City of Serpents,’ I share my journey of dealing with abuse and betrayal—from family and so-called friends. Over time, I developed an anxious attachment style, sought validation, and pushed people away. I began to believe everyone was out to get me, reinforcing the cycle of mistreatment.


Now, I reply to messages without hesitation. Through what I teach in ‘City of Serpents,’ I learned to heal from the past. By revolutionizing my beliefs, as shared in ‘How Champions Talk to Themselves,’ I’ve gained self-respect and receive far better treatment from others.


Are you pushing people away?

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The Author: Chris Josh

Chris Josh is a spiritual healer, motivational speaker, and a writer. He is the author of five books: City of Serpents, How to Access Your Divine Energy, How Champions Talk to Themselves, The Winning Habit, Unleash Your Confidence, and 8000 Ultimate Affirmations. He’s also written a short eBook called How to Become Your Higher Self

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I am a traditional self healer. Author of A Mother’s Dept. The true story of an African orphan. I love what you do. and your contents are sport on and on point. Thanks for sharing. 🌱❤️

Chioma

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