Written by Chris Josh
Have you ever had a friend who is also friends with someone who doesn’t like you?
It can feel confusing and even hurtful. You might wonder, “Can I trust them?”
The truth is, not everyone will pick sides. Some people like to stay friends with both.
But if your friend listens to bad things about you or acts differently around your enemy, that’s a problem.
That's usually a sign that they heard the other person talk badly about you and didn't defend you.
A real friend won’t let someone talk bad about you or treat you unfairly.
So, what should you do? Talk to your friend. Ask them how they feel and if they are being honest with you.
If they respect you and your feelings, that’s great! But if they act fake or take your enemy’s side, it might be time to step back.
True friends stand by you, no matter what. Choose friends who lift you up, not ones who play both sides.
As far as romantic partners are concerned, if you have a sworn enemy of the same sex as yours and they ignore you and be friendly with them, you might want to get your running shoes and run for the hills.
This is a warning sign of a major lack of loyalty and resepect and 9 times out of 10, they'll betray you multiple times throughout your relationship.
If may even feel like they're romantically interested in the other person. You deserve better!
Let me know in the comments if you've ever dealt with a person who disregarded your request for them to not talk to your enemy? Did you feel betrayed? Did you keep them in your life?
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The Author: Chris Josh
Chris Josh is a spiritual healer, motivational speaker, and a writer. He is the author of five books: City of Serpents, How to Access Your Divine Energy, How Champions Talk to Themselves, The Winning Habit, Unleash Your Confidence, and 8000 Ultimate Affirmations. He’s also written a short eBook called How to Become Your Higher Self.
