Written by Chris Josh
There are people out there who expect you to run to them for validation and approval. They want you to consult them on almost everything. This, according to them, is what gives them purpose.
They want you to constantly shower them with praises and chase after them. And if you don’t do any of these things, they get offended!
Of course, this isn’t the behavior of everyone, just the arrogant ones who think they’re more important than you and everyone else.
They don’t want you to operate independently. Because when you do that, they’re no longer your owner - at least in their eyes. They think, “who the hell does he or she think they are not coming to me to approve their plan?”
These types of people have a superiority complex. God forbid your plan fails, they’ll harshly criticize you as if to say, “see! This is what happens when you don’t come to me for advice, you moron!”
It’s important to remain independent and learn from your mistakes as you go. Depending on others keeps you on crutches all your life. When you sense bitterness from these types of individuals, it’s a good idea to move on from them because they’ll always see you as beneath them.
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The Author: Chris Josh
Chris Josh is a spiritual healer, motivational speaker, and a writer. He is the author of five books: City of Serpents, How to Access Your Divine Energy, How Champions Talk to Themselves, The Winning Habit, Unleash Your Confidence, and 8000 Ultimate Affirmations. He’s also written a short eBook called How to Become Your Higher Self.
3 comments
Hi, Josh I enjoyed your book, Thank you. On this topic we are all talking about, I learned it in a hard way long time ago with someone I thought I will live rest of my life and grow old with. I was wrong, but now I know my boundaries. Your book is helpful I still have a lot of stuff to learn myself. I’m going to buy more of your books soon😊 keep it up. You inspire us what you do.
The arrogant personality you’re describing is someone who will do something to help you only because they expect something in return. That’s a form of manipulation. Manipulation is a loser’s tool and losers make you lose.
Hello josh, How do I get all the five books.im in Nigeria. pls respond.