Written by Chris Josh
Why You Should Never Reveal Too Much: The Power of Privacy in Personal Relationships
It’s never a good idea to share too many details about yourself to anyone because it can always backfire and be used against you later. That person who seems sweet and innocent can one day use any information you gave them to destroy you from within.
Sadly, we live in a world of phony people wearing masks, pretending to be someone they’re not. And we can spend many years with a relative, friend, or partner and be fooled into believing the narrative they’ve given us about themselves. Only to find out one day it was all a facade.
Whether you’re a man or woman, it’s best you don’t over share personal information. You gain absolutely nothing by doing so. There's no upside - it's all downside.
Remember, conniving people rarely come to you with a menacing look on their face. Instead, they usually bear a friendly, harmless smile.
This doesn’t mean you should be highly skeptical of everyone or to isolate yourself. It just means you are cognizant of what details you share with others and you protect yourself from potential harm.
If you have something about yourself that you know you should keep to yourself, but you have this great urge to tell someone, grab a piece of paper and a pen, and write it out as if you’re telling someone. This will help you get it out of your system.
I highly recommend you tell no one, including your partner, if possible, things like your social security number, bank and credit card numbers either. Why? Because if you end cutting them off one day because of maltreatment, he or she can retaliate against you and ruin you financially. Something you do not want to experience!
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I have learnt that if you teach your ignorant enemies, they will learn from you and use it against you and trying to manipulate other innocent people so that will show about you and make sense to these people that they taught you this. so that can gop over you and get what they want. So we can also call this a theft. Very ungratefully!!! it can piss you off!!! because they take what you want. and that is unfair!!! and when karma hits them back and let them fall down they will come back to you and trying to give you feeling of guil. So i cry for the inncocent people that believe these thiefs and have seen me all the time as guilty person. it hurts me for years!!! without talking about.
I enjoy reading about how the brain works and relationships and people who say things to others hurtful or not
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