Written by Chris Josh
One person to watch out for is the one who believes nothing you say. While it’s natural to think that a person may have trust issues, and maybe some people you encounter do have trust issues. However, the type of person I’m talking about is the one who’s projecting.
When a person is honest, they usually believe what others say to a certain degree. And the opposite is true. When a person is a compulsive liar, he or she assumes everyone else is just like them and can’t be trusted.
With the person having trust issues, that’s not your problem. You don’t need to entertain someone who doesn’t trust you, regardless of their situation. After all, what’s the point of being in a relationship or friendship and you’re viewed as a liar?
Back to the type of person I need you to watch out for. The liar who’s projecting on to you. I’ve seen this with my own eyes many, many times. No matter how good your track record is when it comes to honesty, they will always be skeptical of you.
And that’s your queue to part ways because that person always turned out to be a backstabber from my experience. They would be skeptical of tiny things and they would even lie about the smallest things themselves. Again, the reason they think you’d be lying about something minor is because that’s what they do. They’re telling on themselves.
You’ve been warned. This type of person can’t be trusted. Don’t be fooled by their charm.
They will leave you feeling like you're a criminal who can't be trusted. You'll always try prove yourself to this type of person that you're trustworthy. And you'll feel like no matter what you do or say, it's never enough to gain their trust. You'll even start doubting yourself and feel un-credible. This will affect your confidence and self-esteem.
Now, the other type of person - the one who has trust issues may not be a liar but they will always treat you like you’re guilty and not a credible person. Either way, it’s best to let these two types of people go. You deserve to be in a healthy relationship and friendship where you are trusted and respected.
Do you know anyone like the two described?
12 comments
Your content is fantastic it helps me reflect on to own behavior and tendencies while giving me confirmation and courage to address the folks in my life!
#gratitude Chris
I know gave you a pledge to purchase one of your books.
I have allowed doubt and a scarcity mindset to prevent me from taking action.
I will fulfill this pledge by Thursday the 24th of October ( this week! )
Thanks again for your effort.
My ex wife is a dangerous liar and has a narcissist personality.tells lies all the time and used to accuse me of the things she was doing herself.I will be honest I had never seen a character like that in my life.