Written by Chris Josh
If you’ve ever lived with a narcissist or you think you’re living with one now, then this blog post is for you. If you and the other person have different schedules and they need to wake up earlier than you, then chances are they really don’t like that and here’s why.
They think it’s unfair. Between the two of you, you may be the one who provides more value (and income) to the household, and you’re able to do it effortlessly and efficiently. You make it look easy, which they despise. Watching you sleep an extra 60-90 minutes irritates them and they’ll make sure you get up right after they’re up. How?
They’ll walk with heavy, stomping feet, slam the drawers, cabinets, and doors. When they’re in the kitchen, they’ll cause a ruckus with the utensils, pots, and pans. What should you do?
Unfortunately, if you ask them to keep it down, they may keep it quiet the next day, but they’ll return to their normal behavior the following day. Of course, they’ll tell you they did nothing. In short, these types of people are spoiled, bratty, a-holes who don’t truly care about you and your well-being. There’s no sugarcoating it! How many times are you going to keep asking them to keep the noise down?
I found myself experiencing this with 2 different narcissists: one is an overt, the other a covert narcissist. This lasted for 4 decades. Knowing what I know today regarding narcissists, this behavior is grounds for immediate termination of the relationship, whether it’s a family member, friend, or romantic partner. Why?
Because it tells me everything I need to know about the person. I know the person doesn’t truly care about me because if they did, they wouldn’t drop a feather on the floor while I’m sleeping because they would truly want to see me well-rested and wake up on my own. Do you know anyone who’s like this? Let me know in the comments below.
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The Author: Chris Josh
Chris Josh is a spiritual healer, motivational speaker, and a writer. He is the author of five books: City of Serpents, How to Access Your Divine Energy, How Champions Talk to Themselves, The Winning Habit, Unleash Your Confidence, and 8000 Ultimate Affirmations. He’s also written a short eBook called How to Become Your Higher Self.
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After what they get what they want they feel relaxed of obtaining and brainwash people and going over you. They look at you and they see that you are hard blamed and DAMMAGED BY THIS PEOPLE . So i choose to be better alone and take a deep sleep after thinking about how im being hurted by these blood suckers. Sometimes i wake up of the abuse of these hypomaniacs. Trying to attract attention from the sad people who chose peace after their stupid dramatic behavior.
It forced me to end my relationship but we already had a child
Yes, my husband. I used to think that I was everything he said until I found out who I in a relationship with and it took me 16 years. But now I’m determined that as soon as I get the chance to leave. I’m out of here. I will have to do everything in private because he would start an argument and try to turn everything that is wrong with him on me.
No I don’t know anyone like that. However I know lots of people who have played with my head and my heart since the day I was born and they have made me look like the bad guy. I inherited reactions that made me hate myself. I’ve been confused and felt I was worthless my whole life and I trust the worst fucking people. I can’t handle it anymore
No I don’t know anyone like that. However I know lots of people who have played with my head and my heart since the day I was born and they have made me look like the bad guy. I inherited reactions that made me hate myself. I’ve been confused and felt I was worthless my whole life and I trust the worst fucking people. I can’t handle it anymore