Written by Chris Josh
Disrespect, subtle or blatant, can be like a slow leak in a tire – silent but devastating over time. You might think that brushing it off is insignificant, but allowing others to treat you poorly is more than just “no big deal.” It’s a direct hit to your success, happiness, and self-worth. How do I know all this? Because I experienced it myself!
How do I know all this? Because I experienced it myself!
When we allow disrespect, we’re unknowingly setting a standard for how others view us—and, more importantly, how we view ourselves. Each instance chips away at your self-confidence, making it harder to pursue goals, build genuine connections, and embrace happiness. Imagine trying to climb a mountain with someone constantly telling you that you can’t make it. Eventually, their words may start to echo in your own mind, affecting your drive and belief in yourself.
Self-respect is essential for personal joy
Happiness takes a hit, too. Self-respect is essential for personal joy; without it, we find ourselves sacrificing our well-being for the comfort of others. And success? It’s rooted in self-worth. Without setting boundaries, it becomes easy to accept less than what we deserve: settling for jobs, relationships, and environments that don’t fulfill or uplift us.
Empowerment comes from knowing your worth
Empowerment comes from knowing your worth and standing firm in it-never valuing yourself less. Allowing disrespect won’t just drain your energy; it’ll siphon your potential. By choosing respect—for yourself and from others—you’re taking a step closer to a life that’s fulfilling, successful, and profoundly happy.
11 comments
Thxs for the support of your video’s and books every thing I here you say it sounds like my life .
i agree, its tolerance, you only take as much as you can handle then you fight back, and you know it comes with more fights. they get shocked at first, then they attach. you have to be ready for it. so you will let it go for a while to get stronger and then fight back when you are stronger.
My mam destroyed .y self worth as a child,i was a sensitive little girl one of 10 childrenand grew up being bullied verbally by my own siblings.Then bad relationships,so ive been a doormat but im learning to love myself and have mor e confidence Your booksand videos have helped me so much Chris xx
My mam destroyed .y self worth as a child,i was a sensitive little girl one of 10 childrenand grew up being bullied verbally by my own siblings.Then bad relationships,so ive been a doormat but im learning to love myself and have mor e confidence Your booksand videos have helped me so much Chris xx
I agree. Catch 22 though is, that as soon as you stop playing along and tolerating disrespect and manipulation, you become a target. You loose people and most of them try to assasinate your character, because they don’t have control over you anymore nor benefits from your compliance. When they can’t manipulate you, they try to degrade you and when they can’t degrade you, they lie their preety little faces off to destroy your character and with it your social life. They preety much always succeed too.
I am simply saying, that self respect has an enormous price and your life might fall apart, worth it as it may well be.