Written by Chris Josh
You want to know what's the best way to win?
Stop reacting...That's it.
I know it's hard. They say something mean and try to pull you back in.
They want you angry, hurt, and/or confused.
But here's what they don't expect... absolute silence.
When you stop responding, you take away their power. And they can't control you anymore.
They can't get under your skin. And they can't make you feel small.
Your silence says everything they need to hear.
It says you're done. It says they don't matter anymore. And it says you've moved on.
Trust me, nothing bothers them more than that.
So when they text, don't answer. When they talk about you, don't defend yourself. And if/when they try to start something, just walk away.
Your peace is more important than their chaos.
The best revenge isn't getting even. It's not caring at all.