How Toxic People Destroy Your Life And Dreams

 Written by Chris Josh

In a world full of people with unhealed trauma, toxicity is rampant. And sometimes we feel like we're just stuck with these people because they're family or we're married to them with kids.

However, you'll be shocked to discover what a negative impact they're having on you. Let's start with the topic most people care a lot about - finances. When you're dealing with a toxic person, you are being drained from your energy. 

What is money? It's currency. And what is currency? It's energy! When someone is wasting your time (time is money) and energy, you simply don't have the resources to increase your finances or even maintain them.

When you're preoccupied with drama and nonsense, then that's taking time and energy away from brainstorming new ideas. It's taking away from your creativity as well.  You no longer have room to allow money making ideas to arise within you. You won't have room for money-saving ideas either.

So, while you're trying to save a relationship for the sake of "family" or a "marriage," consider the impact it's having on your quality of life.

Now, let's talk about the impact on your health. A toxic person can do a number on your stress, anxiety, and depression levels. They can cause you to get angry and act out of character. They can even make you think of suicide.

You can get brain fog and lose your memory. Your decision making ability can be completely disabled. You'll be low on energy, ambition and motivation. You'll be immobilized and stagnant. Your focus will be diminished.

Now when you're out and about at your job, place of business, gym or a big box store, others will dismiss you simply because of the vibe you're now in. You'll appear to be visibly stressed and spaced out. You'll appear to be someone to steer clear from.  In other words, you'll be unattractive to everyone, including the opposite sex. Building a network of people can be a serious challenge.

Cutting off people is very hard - at the beginning. Once you decide to muster up the strength and courage to cut off the first person, then each subsequent cut-off becomes easier and easier. 

You owe it to yourself to clear these people out of your life. You're only enabling their behavior by allowing them a place in your life. They must learn their lesson through you.