Written by Chris Josh
One person to watch out for is the one who believes nothing you say. While it’s natural to think that a person may have trust issues, and maybe some people you encounter do have trust issues. However, the type of person I’m talking about is the one who’s projecting.
When a person is honest, they usually believe what others say to a certain degree. And the opposite is true. When a person is a compulsive liar, he or she assumes everyone else is just like them and can’t be trusted.
With the person having trust issues, that’s not your problem. You don’t need to entertain someone who doesn’t trust you, regardless of their situation. After all, what’s the point of being in a relationship or friendship and you’re viewed as a liar?
Back to the type of person I need you to watch out for. The liar who’s projecting on to you. I’ve seen this with my own eyes many, many times. No matter how good your track record is when it comes to honesty, they will always be skeptical of you.
And that’s your queue to part ways because that person always turned out to be a backstabber from my experience. They would be skeptical of tiny things and they would even lie about the smallest things themselves. Again, the reason they think you’d be lying about something minor is because that’s what they do. They’re telling on themselves.
You’ve been warned. This type of person can’t be trusted. Don’t be fooled by their charm.
They will leave you feeling like you're a criminal who can't be trusted. You'll always try prove yourself to this type of person that you're trustworthy. And you'll feel like no matter what you do or say, it's never enough to gain their trust. You'll even start doubting yourself and feel un-credible. This will affect your confidence and self-esteem.
Now, the other type of person - the one who has trust issues may not be a liar but they will always treat you like you’re guilty and not a credible person. Either way, it’s best to let these two types of people go. You deserve to be in a healthy relationship and friendship where you are trusted and respected.
Do you know anyone like the two described?
12 comments
This right here. Led to the ultimate betrayal. I follow you on FB as well and your spot on . Im so grateful for your words and Insight and appreciate the time you take into writing these blogs and making videos. You have given me strength and helped me tremendously.
Thank you Chris, because of your insights I am making plans to leave this toxic relationship I am in behind. This person accuses me of lying about everything , I’m so sick of the whole mess with him.. he is threatening to harm me or steal my dog from me if I leave him, this will not deter me my plans are moving forward. Good by and good riddance to this butthead.
Hey buddy, I ordered and paid for the four autograph books. It’s been at least a month probably more. I don’t know if you can see what the issue is.? Thanks man
I had a friend who used to pretend to like me more than she did and secretly didn’t like me at all and used to act like it was a privilege to be in her presence by. I am so happy now she is gone. Goodbye for ever
Now that you mention it, there are people who I have been in contact with who project that I am lying and they obviously do. I am not on contact with them anymore because they make me question my own self worth. I do not need them bring problems into my life. Thanks for your insight. I appreciate it.