Written by Chris Josh
You must know there are people in your life who are just bread crumbing you. It’s what it sounds like. A person will give you the absolute bare minimum and perhaps even less than that.
Why do they treat you this way? For many reasons. They may not see your worth. They may be jealous and/or envious of you. They may even be doing it out of their ego. In that case, what they want you to do is work harder to get their validation.
Of course, they hardly ever give you that validation. And maybe once in a blue moon, they’ll throw you a bone and that excites you. Then, they go back to their old ways.
Don’t be tricked by some of these individuals. They’ll purposely hide their bread crumbing by making excuses that they have emergencies and issues arising all the time and that that’s the reason for their lack of effort. But these are slick narcissists. Don’t fall for it.
The ones who purposely want you to work harder think it’s a game. Once they see you’re putting in a lot of effort, they know they got you and they’ll continue making you prove yourself to them.
If you notice you have people like this in your life, just know it’s not happening by chance and it’s not how they are with everyone else. Don’t even try to correct their behavior. Your best bet is to just cut them off.
Keep introducing yourself to new people and you will bump into people who truly value you and love your vibe. Remember, not everyone is for you. Don’t settle for breadcrumbs when you can get the whole loaf of bread from someone else.
12 comments
Bread crumbs, story of my life LoL 😆❤️ Now that I’m older, I know exactly what my worth is and I wouldn’t stand for anyone doing that to me anymore, they’d be bye, bye. Great advice, Thanks
More words of wisdom. Thank you again for your valuable insight.
Hey Josh thank you for this message it resonates with me because it’s been a lot on the computer, and a lot of negative people, I wanted their approval and that is what makes me sad in life because I see myself running miles and i continue to hurt my own feelings to be honest I don’t even understand who I am anymore I lost myself but I’m gonna switch it around I needed that wake up call to show don’t mess with me that was my point to the narcissist, lol hehe you’re awesome Josh thank you so much ! I’m a half split women 30 staples to stomach and 29 to my spine I’m exhausted and lost and I always got taken advantage of for being too nice and that I need to learn to stop and stay off the media I think I’m not sure but I have a really
Big story and it’s very sad, so I suffer a lot and I criticize myself a lot as well shame myself and that’s what makes me not valuable and feeling like a burden now :( even my own family did me so wrong in this life but I’m gonna let go and forgive and I just wanna be independent and alone to be honest Josh I wanna make to where I can be independent that’s my worry the most cause dad wasn’t around gamble alcohol since I was a kid man I didn’t have no one it was me against the world kind of cause I seen strange in this world Josh a lot of back stabbers gossips degrading people and it’s sad. I’m gonna keep up with you if u can help me what book you think I should start reading cause I can’t even read I wish I had a partner just to read with me
Hey Josh thank you for this message it resonates with me because it’s been a lot on the computer, and a lot of negative people, I wanted their approval and that is what makes me sad in life because I see myself running miles and i continue to hurt my own feelings to be honest I don’t even understand who I am anymore I lost myself but I’m gonna switch it around I needed that wake up call to show don’t mess with me that was my point to the narcissist, lol hehe you’re awesome Josh thank you so much ! I’m a half split women 30 staples to stomach and 29 to my spine I’m exhausted and lost and I always got taken advantage of for being too nice and that I need to learn to stop and stay off the media I think I’m not sure but I have a really
Big story and it’s very sad, so I suffer a lot and I criticize myself a lot as well shame myself and that’s what makes me not valuable and feeling like a burden now :( even my own family did me so wrong in this life but I’m gonna let go and forgive and I just wanna be independent and alone to be honest Josh I wanna make to where I can be independent that’s my worry the most cause dad wasn’t around gamble alcohol since I was a kid man I didn’t have no one it was me against the world kind of cause I seen strange in this world Josh a lot of back stabbers gossips degrading people and it’s sad. I’m gonna keep up with you if u can help me what book you think I should start reading cause I can’t even read I wish I had a partner just to read with me
What a good reminder. Thanks Josh.