Written by Chris Josh
You must know there are people in your life who are just bread crumbing you. It’s what it sounds like. A person will give you the absolute bare minimum and perhaps even less than that.
Why do they treat you this way? For many reasons. They may not see your worth. They may be jealous and/or envious of you. They may even be doing it out of their ego. In that case, what they want you to do is work harder to get their validation.
Of course, they hardly ever give you that validation. And maybe once in a blue moon, they’ll throw you a bone and that excites you. Then, they go back to their old ways.
Don’t be tricked by some of these individuals. They’ll purposely hide their bread crumbing by making excuses that they have emergencies and issues arising all the time and that that’s the reason for their lack of effort. But these are slick narcissists. Don’t fall for it.
The ones who purposely want you to work harder think it’s a game. Once they see you’re putting in a lot of effort, they know they got you and they’ll continue making you prove yourself to them.
If you notice you have people like this in your life, just know it’s not happening by chance and it’s not how they are with everyone else. Don’t even try to correct their behavior. Your best bet is to just cut them off.
Keep introducing yourself to new people and you will bump into people who truly value you and love your vibe. Remember, not everyone is for you. Don’t settle for breadcrumbs when you can get the whole loaf of bread from someone else.
12 comments
We call this ants fuckers… it means that you steal from the most poor person in a society and try to shut his mouth and not let them complaining.
I have found that people who bread crumb me l cut them out of my life for good because l can’t allow those kind of people around me. This allows me to work on myself and allows me to be around people who value me.😀😀😀
Yep this is why I feel your speaking to my soul. I left this kind of behaviour alone a lond time ago with family members. I also cut off friends too knowing that I was struggling and being breadcrumb to people got me doing things by myself. It’s not that I don’t need people around me but I find it better to do things myself. So I don’t get let down by anyone. Also I find by doing things myself and having my own expectation, I can only let myself down. Plus I hit my goals quicker on my own. Rather than someone reminding you that they did this and that to help you. When it wasn’t done out of kindness or love in the first place. Absolutely going to take your points about this to a even better understanding of everything Chris. Hope your having a blessed week sir.
Yep this is why I feel your speaking to my soul. I left this kind of behaviour alone a lond time ago with family members. I also cut off friends too knowing that I was struggling and being breadcrumb to people got me doing things by myself. It’s not that I don’t need people around me but I find it better to do things myself. So I don’t get let down by anyone. Also I find by doing things myself and having my own expectation, I can only let myself down. Plus I hit my goals quicker on my own. Rather than someone reminding you that they did this and that to help you. When it wasn’t done out of kindness or love in the first place. Absolutely going to take your points about this to a even better understanding of everything Chris. Hope your having a blessed week sir.
Resonated. It’s happening now, I already released him but he wants to stay in me. I know the reason behind, first His thinking I am stupid but I only give him a chance for him to change but you’re right No need to correct people, specially narcissist. Because of his other woman, he wants me to destroy. His using drugs on me, I know how to control myself. All I want is for him to go away. But it doesn’t he don’t want to go so I decided to go and cut him off. I know what’s his doing, everything. I’M OUT HERE THAT I’M ON THE TOP. I AM GUIDED AND PROTECTED. I AM GRATEFUL